Posted by katie, at 02:50 on Mon, Nov 2nd

Wow….lol….there’s so much wrong with that list of actions it’s actually funny.

Right then, first off, get over the latest ex. Seriously.
Second: no sex on the first date. That one’s been explained already.
Third: have a life outside of your relationship, meaning don’t ditch friends and allow partner to have a life too, meaning let her go out on her own.
Fourth: “get angry coz you two ran into her ex”

Posted by Dawn Harman, at 20:02 on Mon, Aug 31st

She sounds really sweet! She just wanna be loved! I'd date her! xxx

Posted by Meli, at 15:52 on Mon, Aug 3rd

oh there's too many of these girls around!

Far too much interdependancy and not enough independance happening.

2 needy people jump into relationship = a turbulant relationship of tears and broken hearts.
2 people who are cumfortable in their own skin meet = a time of sharing, treating and loving. A good stepping stone, even on ending, a skill of knowing you can be on your own enables you to get through it easier and re embrace life with excitement for your next journey.

Posted by K, at 00:55 on Sun, May 31st

Hm worrying, i dont think there's much wrong with the chick. kinda standard. i'd worry it was about me if i didnt know better!

Posted by Misti, at 22:19 on Wed, Apr 29th

I don't think she was persistant enough. You know we all appreciate the stalkers...maybe she could stalk instead of waiting patiently by the phone. LOL!

Posted by Natty B., at 18:13 on Tue, Apr 28th

LMFAO. You're hilarious. I wish I didn't really know women like that. Oh gawd. lol

Posted by Ali, at 01:25 on Wed, Mar 25th

Haha...don't pretend we've not all been there once in our life!!.......you try to resist texting or calling...but next thing you know, you're checking your phone every 5 mins for a reply...just incase.
OR we've been on the receiving side of it...thinking 'Crazy bitch'...who would do that?!!

Posted by bex, at 10:53 on Mon, Mar 16th

ditching your friends when you get a girlfriend - not good!!

Posted by EC, at 19:53 on Sun, Mar 15th

I just hope your pretty, confident and funny friend get to read all the comments posted here and take them on board.

Posted by Ali, at 18:46 on Sun, Mar 15th

She's going wrong at the very first step! Don't look for someone based on their likeness to your ex, choose someone who you are attracted to and leave the ex expectations behind!

Posted by kate, at 14:38 on Sat, Mar 14th

i am suffering in a bit of a dating cycle too but nothing quite as bad as this. i get attached to quickly

Posted by chris, at 09:42 on Sat, Mar 14th

she sounfs like one to avoid at all costs

Posted by Gemma L, at 00:48 on Sat, Mar 14th

Hehehe I think I dated her ;)))))

Posted by Vicky, at 23:50 on Fri, Mar 13th

my current relationship started as a one night stand and we have been together over a year. I think the fact your friend is a bit crazy is more the problem :) x

Posted by louise, at 22:13 on Fri, Mar 13th

I sense a hint of sarcasm in your I can't see where she is going wrong part hahahahahahaha

Posted by Tess, at 21:37 on Fri, Mar 13th

I haven't had much experience of online dating so I can't say if it's a bad way to meet the potential girlfriends but sleeping with a girl on the first night is a no no in my books. I think she needs to take a good look at herself. I agree about the self astem issue that casey mentioned also. Hope she is taking notes.

Posted by Casey, at 20:28 on Fri, Mar 13th

I think she has a low self esteem based on the fact she sleeps with girls after just meeting them, although that might be kinda hot at first, if your looking for a potential girlfriend, this is not a good quality to have. You want someone who doesnt mind waiting around for the sex and who views you in other ways. It's way hotter when a girl wants to hold off for you. So I agree the first thing she is doing wrong is what "Sarah" said, "creating a relationship from a one night stand", NOT gonna happen. The other thing...that whole texting, calling, is kind of stalkerish and weird. I think this girl needs to stop trying to have total control over everything because its not working and I feel sorry for the future girls she meets.

Posted by jenny, at 20:09 on Fri, Mar 13th

she sounds like a total loser!!!!

Posted by sarah, at 19:58 on Fri, Mar 13th

creating a relationship from a one night stands that is where it all goes wrong!! although she does seem a bit crazy!!

Posted by sam, at 19:47 on Fri, Mar 13th

it would be much easier to point out how she was going right; no actually thats more of a needle in haystack