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AnonyMoose

Where Is She Going Wrong?

by AnonyMoose

I have this friend who is basically a dating disaster, she is pretty, confident and funny, I bet she is sounding like a real catch, right? I can't for the life of me work out where she is going wrong, but all her relationships seem to run a similar cycle. Being the good friend that I am, I decided to catalogue the cycle in the desperate hope that maybe someone else can pin point whats going wrong with her relationships ...

Saying Sorry

Any help would be much appreciated, thanks in advance!

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Posted by Emma, at 01:46 on Tue, Jul 13th

Sounds like your standard needy lesbian to me lol... Maybe instead of meeting all these girls on the internet she should be out there meeting people, socializing, leaving it to chance the people she might meet. I mean think about it if she's out doing things she enjoys say for arguments sake watching a band... and meets someone... straight away you know you've got something in common... The only thing you probably have in common meeting all these people on gaydar is that your both sat in too much logging on at the same time! Not only that but your dates will also dertimine quicker whether that person is right for you before getting all emotionally attached becuase you spent the last month staying up until 2.30am in the morning giving swapping your life stories.... She needs to get out and meet people and in the mean time this is quality time with your friends... Mayben then it wont be so easy to give them up next time.... and stop whinging on FB lol

Posted by Abyitia, at 11:54 on Fri, May 28th

I think we've all done that or dated someone like that!

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Posted by katie, at 02:50 on Mon, Nov 2nd

Wow….lol….there’s so much wrong with that list of actions it’s actually funny.

Right then, first off, get over the latest ex. Seriously.
Second: no sex on the first date. That one’s been explained already.
Third: have a life outside of your relationship, meaning don’t ditch friends and allow partner to have a life too, meaning let her go out on her own.
Fourth: “get angry coz you two ran into her ex”

Posted by Dawn Harman, at 20:02 on Mon, Aug 31st

She sounds really sweet! She just wanna be loved! I'd date her! xxx

Posted by Meli, at 15:52 on Mon, Aug 3rd

oh there's too many of these girls around!

Far too much interdependancy and not enough independance happening.

2 needy people jump into relationship = a turbulant relationship of tears and broken hearts.
2 people who are cumfortable in their own skin meet = a time of sharing, treating and loving. A good stepping stone, even on ending, a skill of knowing you can be on your own enables you to get through it easier and re embrace life with excitement for your next journey.

Posted by K, at 00:55 on Sun, May 31st

Hm worrying, i dont think there's much wrong with the chick. kinda standard. i'd worry it was about me if i didnt know better!

Posted by Misti, at 22:19 on Wed, Apr 29th

I don't think she was persistant enough. You know we all appreciate the stalkers...maybe she could stalk instead of waiting patiently by the phone. LOL!

Posted by Natty B., at 18:13 on Tue, Apr 28th

LMFAO. You're hilarious. I wish I didn't really know women like that. Oh gawd. lol

Posted by Ali, at 01:25 on Wed, Mar 25th

Haha...don't pretend we've not all been there once in our life!!.......you try to resist texting or calling...but next thing you know, you're checking your phone every 5 mins for a reply...just incase.
OR we've been on the receiving side of it...thinking 'Crazy bitch'...who would do that?!!

Posted by bex, at 10:53 on Mon, Mar 16th

ditching your friends when you get a girlfriend - not good!!

Posted by EC, at 19:53 on Sun, Mar 15th

I just hope your pretty, confident and funny friend get to read all the comments posted here and take them on board.

Posted by Ali, at 18:46 on Sun, Mar 15th

She's going wrong at the very first step! Don't look for someone based on their likeness to your ex, choose someone who you are attracted to and leave the ex expectations behind!

Posted by kate, at 14:38 on Sat, Mar 14th

i am suffering in a bit of a dating cycle too but nothing quite as bad as this. i get attached to quickly

Posted by chris, at 09:42 on Sat, Mar 14th

she sounfs like one to avoid at all costs

Posted by Gemma L, at 00:48 on Sat, Mar 14th

Hehehe I think I dated her ;)))))

Posted by Vicky, at 23:50 on Fri, Mar 13th

my current relationship started as a one night stand and we have been together over a year. I think the fact your friend is a bit crazy is more the problem :) x

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