my gf

lovegirls200809 · **Joined:** Sat Jun 23, 2012 3:20 pm **Posts:** 2

Hi, i know this is a forum but could use some advice of you all in a way.
Ive been with my girl for nearly 4 years in august, and in the middle of an argument, well wasnt even an argument she just came out with i dont think im gay anymore miss sex with girls, although we are still together im struggling to forget it, just wondered if anyone else has been in this situation and give me their opinions on it all. Im sure there are girls out there that had to deal with this lol.
Thanks :smile:

horse · **Posted:** Sun Jun 24, 2012 11:42 pm

lovegirls200809 wrote:

she just came out with i dont think im gay anymore miss sex with girls

quote is contradictory ?

lovegirls200809 · **Joined:** Sat Jun 23, 2012 3:20 pm **Posts:** 2

sorry meant to say misses sex with men

horse · **Posted:** Tue Jun 26, 2012 2:40 pm

Umm, I haven't been in that position but I would imagine this isn't something you could talk through ?
You could change the style of sex but honestly that isn't actually the same, it's just different and it either makes you happy or it doesn't.

Ultimately most (younger) people drift back into relationships where they are sexually happiest, rather than try to persevere when 'something' is missing. Even older people may change their mind once married.

Sorry that isn't very encouraging

Best you can do it talk to her about where she wants to go next.

Bilal · **Joined:** Wed Oct 26, 2011 1:41 am **Posts:** 1233

Let her know the effects of what she's said has had on you, cause other wise there’s no point being in a relationship if you can't speak your mind on issues that bother you, specially with someone who hasn’t got a problem in letting you know what's on hers!

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