Posted by Dorothy, at 07:35 on Tue, May 1st

, asexuals may eggane in non-sexual romantic relationships. These are labeled depending on the
genders of the people involved (i.e. homoromantic relationships would be between people of the
same gender).On this SAME SPECTRUM we have bisexuals, homosexuals, heterosexuals, and
pansexuals. As all of these terms describe the way a person can identify their sexuality, one
CANNOT be an asexual homosexual. It's the same thing as saying one lacks attraction to
others, sexually, BUT is interested in the same gender, sexually. This is contradictory.
Again, to say that one is a homoromantic asexual (meaning, in love with someone of the same
gender otherwise, but not sexually attracted to) is correct.Some people who SHOW a disinterest
in sex (and may or may not actually BE disinterested in sex) are not asexual at all, but may be
suffering from a personality disorder, such as schizoid personality disorder or avoidant
personality disorder. These personality disorders are also rare in the general
population.While I am not a doctor or psychologist, I find sexuality and mental health
fascinating and everything I have written is based in fact, not my opinion. Sorry for not
citing. Please feel free to correct me if anything is outdated or found to be incorrect.

Posted by Giovanni, at 04:55 on Tue, May 1st

Several theories: 1) they are blcisalay frightened of their sexuality, therefore they feel
safer with gay guys because deep down sex terrifies them but they still like to be flirty w/out
the prospect of real sex or a real relationship happening; 2) gay guys are hot and they can't
control themselves; 3) they like the conquest.VA:F [1.9.3_1094]please wait...VA:F
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Posted by Chaitali, at 04:03 on Tue, May 1st

Its funny everytime watch one of these voieds i feel like ok this is it im going to do it! But
then i think i allow my self to forget Which makes me wonder am i afraid to come out to my
family because i am afraid to step out of my comfort zone .? And the excuse is that they wont
accept me for who i am, because i know they love me!!! I think Im simply confused sigh I know
it has to happen sooner or later.. still unsure of what i should do. Well at any rate thanks Mr
Wavey for sll of your love and support also thank you blogbuddys for all your comments and and
shareing all of your expirence! i love you all!

Posted by Ole, at 03:39 on Tue, May 1st

men belong with women and blah blah blah I didn't raelly listen to him because dancing with
the stars was going to come on any minute. But he eventually came around. Most everyone else
was completely fine with it. There's only been one person in my life that I've met that
doesn't like me solely based on the fact that I'm gay. He's kinda rude towards me and he'll
say his comments under his breath but even still we can be in the same room and he doesn't want
to punch me. I kinda want to punch him though but I wont! LOL My friend told me to think of
it as this: I'm more of a man than he'll ever be and more of a woman than he'll ever have.

Posted by Bayu, at 03:33 on Tue, May 1st

Mosaic DaveGoing off to college is an opurptone time to come out if you're concerned about how
you'll be treated in highschool. Nobody in college knows you or has any preconceptions. They
have no attachment to how you should be or how you're past should inform how you act now. I
must say, though, I agree with Davey. There was one guy in our highschool who everyone thought
was gay. The rumours were rampant and he was pretty obvious. I actually had a hand in outing
him because I figured if people made fun of him they wouldn't notice me. Strangely after the
initial wave of Did you hear about ***? He confirmed he's gay. it totally didn't matter
anymore. The fear of any situation that hasn't happened yet is almost always worse than the
situation itself.All the best however you choose to proceed! We've all been there and we're
all behind you.

Posted by Deborah, at 02:32 on Tue, May 1st

christopherreality is this-if youre gay-its like being left handed-as oepospd to being
right-handed.i went on three times to California-to visit with my best friend and neighbour.on
my third trip-soon after-i wrote a fourteen page coming out letter.then he stopped
communicating with me-and it was over.we were just good friends.so-accept me or reject me. -the
best thing we could all do-is come out.it then will be a non-issue.gay people my age-are so
20th century.young people i know well look at it as no big deal.i feel liberated.two guys
know-they are so comfortable with it.one guy went to Columbia College in Chicago-a very
gay-friendly school-and a star wrestler in school-rumours he plays into.likes his guy friends
guessing-hes str8.another guy i know-hes str8-still dates his hs-cheerleader-likes his trophy
woman-so much.hes into fashion-wants to do porn-hangs out in boystown-so if youre str8 or
gay-no big deal. enough with the closet.its for clothes-not people.

Posted by priessa, at 02:01 on Tue, May 1st

"well, in that case I'm quite sure I will never get married then" as in [you've got to do it
yosreulf to get it done correctly kind a gir] not really true but that's what I felt reading
it. I dunno, maybe we're just too progressive and don't understand that everyone else want the
world to stay the same as the last hundred/thousand years /bitter woman without a ring who
still thinks we can change the world, maybe if we have a lot of money and wack out all those
mindless tv reality shows with "winner gets a RING and a husband to take care of you"

Posted by mags, at 18:45 on Fri, Mar 14th

would love to enter my girlfriend in edinburgh or glasgow how do i get a entry form

Posted by Claire, at 07:58 on Thu, Sep 6th

Hi i have placed an entry form in the contest which is being held in Plymouth on the 21st
September. I have not heard anything and was wondering what the situation is and whether there
are any specific aspects to the night that i should be aware of. I think that this is a
fantastic opportunity and Plymouth is in need of somthing like this, especially as we have just
had our first Gay pride and Mardi Gras night. Thank you xxx

Posted by mandy, at 17:11 on Wed, Jul 4th

will you hold a miss gay uk in newcastle please they hold one for the boys but us girls want
sum eye candy too.....

Posted by MissGayUK Organiser, at 15:24 on Wed, Jun 13th

We are in talks with a place in edinburgh at present - you should enter now.

All news
will be updated on the website above.

Posted by Kelly, at 09:17 on Wed, Jun 13th

Why don't you have a miss gay uk heat in Glasgow or Edinburgh? I'd love to enter.

Posted by mary j, at 17:23 on Sat, Jun 2nd

go girls...........

Posted by Michelle, at 05:43 on Thu, Apr 26th

Hey guys...I think your doing a great job..and representing Gay Women in a whole new
light....and its a success . Well done..Seeyou soonxxx

Posted by Emma, at 23:34 on Tue, Apr 17th

I used to go out drinking with Lea and Nina, they're lovely girls and I look forward in seeing
their creation.

Posted by Gemma, at 16:48 on Tue, Apr 3rd

Will they walk down a catwalk and say how they want to create world peace :D