Posted by rach, at 11:59 on Wed, Oct 24th

the silence that follows bein told your loved is truely awkward so i have a few times said it
back with gritted teeth and not meant it. Said it out of obligation cos her puppy dog eyes when
she said it were too much to bear

Posted by charlie, at 14:13 on Mon, Oct 15th

I LVOE U!!!!!!

Can I fuck u now? ;o)

Posted by Vicky, at 10:09 on Mon, Oct 15th

If someone told me they loved me I would know if they were genuine, love is something you feel
not hear. I guess some people just want to hear it so badly that they fool themselves

Posted by The Canadian, at 03:18 on Mon, Oct 15th

I have a hard time saying I love you to someone I don't love. I use it with my friends to let
them know I'm fond of them so.. I don't bother telling people I date that I love them (it's
just so over used). Instead I show them that I love them by doing the things that count. It got
to the point where I could tell my girlfriend I didn't love her and it was way more romantic
than saying "I love you." Why? Because she understood that for me to trust her judgement by
saying such a statement and to even say it in intimate moments I really did love her.

Posted by Jenni, at 23:02 on Sun, Oct 14th

has anyone else seen the poll on the front of the site. 50% of people have told someone they
love them when they dont out of obligation? Thats sickening!!!!!

Posted by kezzie, at 15:34 on Fri, Oct 12th

well i have said it drunkenly for a f**k but now i have been with mt partner for 5 month and i
mean every word of it

Posted by jay, at 14:16 on Fri, Oct 12th

i have said i love u and didnt mean it, that was when dating was just for the sake of dating,
but nowadays i cant say it if i dont feel it, and if somebody says it to me i would just simply
say "sorry what was that did u say something?" that is terrible i know, but i cant even get the
words over my lips when i do feel it...

Posted by leanne, at 13:45 on Fri, Oct 12th

i love the idea of someone telling a girl they love them because they think they are going to
get a shag and the other girl running a mile

Posted by hayley, at 13:39 on Fri, Oct 12th

i agree that if someone loves you ita about showin it as well as sayin it.but i would never
tell someone i loved them if i didnt mean it

Posted by kate, at 13:15 on Fri, Oct 12th

when someone loves you its not all about just saying it ... its about showing it .......

Posted by kate, at 13:10 on Fri, Oct 12th

well what can i say.... yeah have been there one women in particular will remain nameless
although she knows who she is .... told me she loved me for three years everyday and also said
she would never cheat on me and only wanted me.... what a load of poo.... about 4 months ago
she cheated on me with someone off myspace...lied lied lied..... now she married and not even
an apology for me or a thanks for the years i put into the relationship..... because she is the
rare species of the YELLOW backed swordfish ...... stabbing me in the back.... so i pitty any
women or man that gets with her as she hasn't a clue what she wants nor as she got a caring
bone in her body..... so to the women she is with be careful does she mean she loves you ....
as we were meant to get married planned it and everything..... done me a favour made me realise
what i DO NOT want in a women........

Posted by Dani, at 13:06 on Fri, Oct 12th

"i love you" can be the hardest and the easyest thing to say, iv said it plenty of times with
out meaning it .. like u i thought it would get me sex, but sadly it never worked, iv siad it
at least 10 times, but only ever really meant it once, i fell for a best firnd, she said she
loved me to but that turnt out to be lies so she could get drugs and achole out of me =[,iv
never had some one say it to me and mean it. Love is the best feeling but also can hurt like "a
plane crashing into your house" when its shatterd and taken away. now i only ever say it when i
know i mean it, wich hasnt happend in 3 and half years now. i think if people are tottaly
honest we'v all said it without meaning it at some point ?

Posted by danni, at 12:22 on Fri, Oct 12th

Kim: If I told someone I loved them and genuinly meant it and they told me they loved spending
time with me I think I'd prefer the lied!

Posted by alice, at 10:41 on Fri, Oct 12th

i agree with sam, in hindsight i can say that i have told people i loved them and not meant it,
but at the time i genuinly thought i did. i cant imagine telling someone just to get a fuck
though and knowing i didnt mean it, do people relli do that?

Posted by kim, at 02:12 on Fri, Oct 12th

no need to say it out of obligation cant you just say i love ''spending time'' with you too?

Posted by kc, at 01:57 on Fri, Oct 12th

if a girl refused to have sex with me until i told her i loved her i would do the same thing

Posted by gems, at 01:47 on Fri, Oct 12th

karma!

Posted by kelly, at 00:56 on Fri, Oct 12th

i believe the politicaly correct term is strawberry blonde not the ginger :o)

Posted by lisa, at 00:39 on Fri, Oct 12th

i have never and would never tell someone i loved them if it were not true its mean

Posted by sam, at 23:56 on Thu, Oct 11th

im sure everyone has said them without meaning them at some point, or maybe in the moment you
mean them but looking back you realise you just didnt know what love was?

Posted by Sarah, at 23:45 on Thu, Oct 11th

I remember plucking the petals of daisys when I was about 8 saying that, it was always he loves
me, he loves me not back then though. These days those words dont just fall out of my mouth,
when I say them I mean them.